Yeh rishta kya kehlaata hai....:)

Jo bhi hai rishta hamara..

lagta hai mujhe seedha aur pyara

kaisi padi iski neev..na main kuch jaanoo..

par ho tum bade khaas..bas itna hee main maano… 

Nahi mile the hum pehle kabhi,

Par nahi bhi lage aap mujhe ek ajnabi..:-)

jinse kabhi milne ki hoti thi bahot aasha..

aur raah dekhthi aapki..meri nazrein hamesha..

Ho jaate hain jab aapke darshan..
khil jaata hai yeh chehra mera
aur naach utttha hai mera yeh mann..
jaise koi naagin jo dekhe ek safera… 

 Mann mei jo bhi hai aapke liye ehsaas..

deti hai mujhe ek kisam ki mithaas..

apne saath lekar aati hai ek badi si muskaan..

jisse rok paana kabhi nahi hua hai aasaan. 

Aapko sochkar hamesha koi kavitha likhna chahoo..

par aapse milkar theek se baat bhi na kar paaoo..

kya aap ho meri kalpana ya meri haqiqat..

jinki bas ek jhalak se milti hai mujhe raahat..

 

Koun si disha mei yeh rishtha hai chala..

na koi suraag hai mujhe mila..

Kya wajah ho sakti hai mere in khayaalon ka..

Kya denge aap jawaab mere in sawaalon ka….

                       

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My sweet family...:)

Dedicated to my dearest Appa, Amma, Bhavs and Nandu... :-)

With all my love do I feel like writing this to you today...

a few things from the core of my heart that I want to say..

You are my angels for all the reasons...

anytime..anyday..in all the seasons..!!! :-)

We have spent many moments ..of those to cherish..

which, even in a pensive mood..I cannot..but relish..!

Never thought I would run short of words to write..

about my angels..who always taught me whats wrong and right..

Just one sight of your fills my life with good cheers..

you always make me laugh when you found me in tears..

When i look at my life and think if I have any close friends..

Its only my sweet family...on whom my heart always depends..

I feel happy being born in the family of my parents and sisters..great thanks to god...

always got loads of love from my sweeet family and of them I am very proud..

All my life, from you have i learnt to deal things with serenity..

Will always love you...till a time that is far beyond eternity...

**..Rishta Saar..**

Taali agar do haathon se baje,
Toh woh rishtha khoob saje..♥

Rishta chahe jo bhi ho- dosti ya mohabbat..
Dono taraf se mel hona- hai iski bahot zaroorat..

Warna reh jaayega ek rishtha adhoora bina koi wajood..
Gehri chont pahunchthi hai...yehi hai iska saboot..

Pehle khud ko samjha lena-"Dil pe mat le yaar"
Phir kisiko dil dene ki sochna kabhi-kabaar...♥ ;-)

Hum Tum

Aankhen hain tumhari badi khoobsoorat..

inme dekhthi hoon khud k liye mohabbat..

na jaanoo ki kya hai yeh rishtha hamara..

lagta hai...hai mere liye ek pyaar ka sahara..

jiski shayad thi pehle se kami zindagi mei

aur ab is kami ko poori kar diya hai tumne..

main har waqt tumse baat karna chahoo..

par tumse milkar, main kuch na keh paaoo..

bas ek hee vaada hai tumse mujhe karni..

tumse yeh dil ka rishta hai mujhe nibhaani.

chahe jo ho jaaye..tumhari yaadeein kabhi chootenge nahi.

kyunki...mere dil ke rishte kabhi tootenge nahi..

Me :-)

Seems funny to me...but at this point of my life..I have started liking everything around me..I feel a positive energy around and within me..I smile too much these days..with or without any company...the thoughts in my mind are all of the good times I have ever had in my life till now..the world around me seems a nice place to live in..
Hehehe... not that I am in love which one would generally conclude by my statements above..!Just that I feel quite independent of the emotions attached to any person on the earth.I am still in the process of learning what life is..how to behave with people, the dos and don'ts and blah...or maybe because I like the place or locality where I live in!
I have no clue of whatever the reason is..!I know that my world has always been small even though I talk a lot to many people.
But one thing that I would to like highlight is....
"Smile...even if you have no reason to..because once you start smiling..be at yourself or anyone..you will find many reasons to smile in your life..A smile gives birth to another..! :-)"
Just felt like writing this in my blog, hoping that this message would manage to bring a smile on those faces who read this....!!
Take care!!
Keep smiling :-)
~Jans

Relationship...

A few points came across my mind, when I was thinking about relationships...will keep this post updated as and when I get more such points...here are a few of them:

• In love, nothing else matters.



• Relationships work best when balanced.



• It always takes two to tango.



• Its better to be single than being committed to someone who isn't sure of marriage with you.



• Its better that someone keeps quiet rather than comparing you with others for what you are not.



• Great talkers can purely and only talk great...maybe a few real great implement them too..!



• One should forget what ego is before he/she steps into love.



• And where there is true love, where there is a good understanding of the other, feeling of ego never arises, come what may.



• The two in love should prefer enjoying their differences to finding flaws with the other.



• In a relationship everything should be mutual.If its not, then its just one-sided.



• Being there for each other means really being there for one during times of joys and also when he/she is in trouble at any point of time.



• A commitment just doesn't mean two people being together.It also means to take care of each other.Who doesn't want to be loved and taken care of?



• A relationship ends when there is ego instead of pure feelings.



• There is a lot of difference between "caring for" someone and "being bothered" about someone.



• If you need someone badly, let him/her go..If he/she is urs..then he/she will come back to you for sure...but when...?



• If things are not done at the right time, they lose their meaning/value just like how medicines cannot be consumed after their expiry dates.



• Taking your loved one for granted is acceptable upto the extent where it doesn't take the form of taking advantage of him/her...



• Self esteem and Ego are two terms that have a very narrow difference.Understanding and implementing them in your relationships should be done judiciously.



• Too much or nil of self esteem and ego individually will only bring you pain.



• Love/Affection is a two-way road.You give it and you get it.



• A communication gap between the two in love can be dangerous to their relationship if there is no mutual trust between them. But a too-long communication gap is also not advisable too.



• Faith in each, can be enhanced by confiding in each other that, "Yes.I know I can count on him/her".



• Where there is a will, there is a way.This applies to relationships too.



• Arrogance and ego are permissible upto some extent.



• Love is patience.If you cannot be patient with your love, then think about it again...you might have to lose him/her soon.



• Keep your feelings confined between just the two of you..never let people interfere in your matters.



• Fear, shame and guilt- never let these three negative thoughts haunt you.



• Self help is the best help. So never feel lonely..you should be able to entertain/support yourself.



• Never chase anyone especially when the other person doesn't like it.


• Nothing can ever be eternal...!

Pyar...

Pyar..ek aisi bhavna hai,jo banati hai duniya ko khoobsurat..
Kab chaa jaaye jeevan mei..nahi hai uski koi mahurat.

Dhanya ho jate hai woh, jinko mile sachcha pyar kabhi..
Lagta hai ki..haan..bana hai apne liye koi..ek pal k liye bhi...

Jitna katthin hai pyar paana, usse bhi katthin hota hai saath nibhana..
Ek doosre ka khayaal rakhne ko jitne bhi avsar aayenge, unko kabhi na gavaana..

Pyar toh shuruvaat hai ek sundar safar ka..us khaas insaan ke saath..
Jisse baat karne ki ichcha hoti hai..maano din ho ya raat...

Is pyar ke arth ko samajhna, nahi hai koi saral kaam...
Jab jaanoge kitni hai poojneey, karoge tum usko pranaam..

Pyar lekar jaati hai agle safar mein ek bandhan ki oar..
Shaadi...-Jahaan ban jati hai do premiyo ki ek jeevan bhar ki dor..

Sadiyon se har prem kahaani ki yahi chali aa rahi hai reeth..
Jahaan safal hui kuch kahaaniyaan..aur kuch bas bankar reh jaati hain atheeth...

Pyar jab kho jaata hai, toh jeevan lagta hai adhoora aur ekaanth..
Man mein hamesha hoti hai duvidha aur nahi reh pata hai woh prashaanth..

Agar aapko deni ho apne prem kahani ko ek safal poorvak pehchaan..
To baddhaao apne kadam bina koi shankha..apne jeevan bhar ke saath ka nirman..!