A few points came across my mind, when I was thinking about relationships...will keep this post updated as and when I get more such points...here are a few of them:
- In love, nothing else matters.
- Relationships work best when balanced.
- It always takes two to tango.
- Its better to be single than being committed to someone who isn't sure of marriage with you.
- Its better that someone keeps quiet rather than comparing you with others for what you are not.
- Great talkers can purely and only talk great...maybe a few real great implement them too..!
- One should forget what ego is before he/she steps into love.
- And where there is true love, where there is a good understanding of the other, feeling of ego never arises, come what may.
- The two in love should prefer enjoying their differences to finding flaws with the other.
- In a relationship everything should be mutual.If its not, then its just one-sided.
- Being there for each other means really being there for one during times of joys and also when he/she is in trouble at any point of time.
- A commitment just doesn't mean two people being together.It also means to take care of each other.Who doesn't want to be loved and taken care of?
- A relationship ends when there is ego instead of pure feelings.
- There is a lot of difference between "caring for" someone and "being bothered" about someone.
- If you need someone badly, let him/her go..If he/she is urs..then he/she will come back to you for sure...but when...?
- If things are not done at the right time, they lose their meaning/value just like how medicines cannot be consumed after their expiry dates.
- Taking your loved one for granted is acceptable upto the extent where it doesn't take the form of taking advantage of him/her...
- Self esteem and Ego are two terms that have a very narrow difference.Understanding and implementing them in your relationships should be done judiciously.
- Too much or nil of self esteem and ego individually will only bring you pain.
- Love/Affection is a two-way road.You give it and you get it.
- A communication gap between the two in love can be dangerous to their relationship if there is no mutual trust between them. But a too-long communication gap is also not advisable too.
- Faith in each, can be enhanced by confiding in each other that, "Yes.I know I can count on him/her".
- Where there is a will, there is a way.This applies to relationships too.
- Arrogance and ego are permissible upto some extent.
- Love is patience.If you cannot be patient with your love, then think about it again...you might have to lose him/her soon.
- Keep your feelings confined between just the two of you..never let people interfere in your matters.
- Fear, shame and guilt- never let these three negative thoughts haunt you.
- Self help is the best help. So never feel lonely..you should be able to entertain/support yourself.
- Never chase anyone especially when the other person doesn't like it.
- Nothing can ever be eternal...!
